You’ve probably bumped into that solo traveler by now. The confident one that (definitely) has told you to just go for it; the one that told you traveling alone will change you forever. You’ve probably also heard that you’ll learn to love yourself, to let go, and that you’ll meet millions of people along the way. It’s all true; but it’s not all rainbows and sunshine. Here are 10 things that they never told you.
1. You can’t outrun responsibility
So you want to give this traveling alone a shot. You want to pack up your bags and run to the airport. There’s just one problem; no matter how far you go, you’ll never be able to outrun your problems and responsibilities. They’ll be around when you get back and if you don’t have a plan, it could turn very ugly. Think about what you’re giving up to travel. Make sure you keep doors open for yourself when you get back.
2. It’s not everyone’s cup of coffee
Traveling costs money. Sure you can do it in less but if you’re dreaming of five-star luxury resorts or anything like that. It’s not going to happen. Which is why you need to be sure you really really want to. You will have to struggle, take local buses, eat cheap, do your own laundry, among a billion other things. So if you’re the type of person that won’t wear the same shirt twice, or needs a cup of customized Starbucks coffee every morning; think again.
3. You can fall sick
You’re human. As much as it sucks- you can fall sick and chances are you will. Unfortunately there will no one to take care of you. Be prepared, carry medicines, and do some research on what basic remedies are. You will have to take care of yourself.
4. You need to make an effort to make friends.
Traveling alone can be lonely but it doesn’t have to be. You will need to become comfortable with walking up and introducing yourself to random people. Some will come up to, most will not. Be prepared to walk up and introduce yourself. For people to come to you, you will need to be able to go to them first.
5. You will not always meet the best people.
Be prepared to do things on your own and be comfortable with yourself. While you will definitely meet amazing people and make some lifelong friends but you will also meet some unpleasant people. You simply have to know when to stay away and how to be okay with doing things completely on your own.
6. Keep up with your friends
After you’ve traveled you will have to come home. Don’t simply cut yourself off otherwise you may have a hard time getting back in touch. Definitely don’t be on your phone all the time and miss out on the experience of traveling but make the occasional two minute call once in a while when you remember someone.
7. Living healthy is really important
Drinking every night and partying is unrealistic, overrated, and expensive. It will take a toll on you. While you might want to go out and drink the night away with the friends you just made, you will make much better memories if you rest well, wake up early, eat breakfast, and go exploring with them instead. Build healthy habits and eat as clean as you can. It will go a long way in making you feel more alive.
8. Home will never be the same
You have people that you think are your best friends for life. You may feel this will never change but people will move on while you’re away. Sure you’ll keep in touch, but they have a life to live as well. Don’t be surprised if you come back and everything is different. It’s supposed to be.
9. Your old social circle won’t be enough anymore
Traveling alone makes you truly independent. You learn to think for yourself and solve problems. You will learn to make friends on the spot and not need your social circle. The comfort zone you have at home will no longer be as fulfilling. Yes, you will come to appreciate it more but you will no longer depend on it.
10. No one really cares
You’ve experienced the weirdest and most amazing things. You’ve got a whole new perspective on life. Guess who cares? No one. Nobody really cares about where you’ve been, what you’ve done, or what you’ve seen. If they ask, don’t start rambling on about every little detail. Learn how to keep it short and sweet. Instead focus on finding out what you missed.
This post is not meant to dishearten you or dissuade you from traveling alone. Each experience is unique. Most of the negative consequences of travel can be avoided if you are aware of their existence. If you are reading this, you might be thinking about leaving or might already be traveling, either way, I wish you the very best. I hope it’s amazing and I want you to remember that every cloud has a silver lining. If you’re stuck in something you don’t like, resist the urge to be pessimistic and look for that silver lining. There’s nothing like a dose of optimism to keep you going!